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Wednesday, July 18, 2007
~*Way to deal with depression*~

How To Deal With Depression

I. What is Depression?

Depression is a feeling of sadness, despair, and hopelessness. When a person is depressed he or she believes there is little meaning or purpose to life. If these thoughts continue a person may eventually not want to continue with life, and may consider suicide. This drastic consideration is the result of a person believing that there is no way out of the circumstance or dilemma that is being encountered. This attitude of hopelessness encourages a person to then fail to take the appropriate actions that would solve the problem causing the depression.

II. What Causes Depression?

A. Anything can cause depression! Some things that could cause depression would be: disappointment, an unresolved conflict with an individual, anger toward God, unbelief, guilt, falling behind in any responsibility.

B. However, these problems, conflicts, or adverse circumstances are not "in themselves" the cause of depression. If just adversity or problems were the cause of depression, we would all be depressed everyday. Yet the Bible promises us that we are to have peace, joy, and victory in the midst of adversity and trials. Jesus said, "These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulations, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world." (John 16:33) (1 Peter 1:6-8)

C. Consequently, the cause of depression is the way you handle adversity, disappointment, and conflicts. This truth is evident from the teaching of the Scripture above. God wants you to have peace in the midst of your trials. Therefore, what is the wrong way to handle adversity? You must examine your attitude, thoughts, and actions in the light of Scripture and determine if you are walking in faith, in love, and obedience. If you are not, then your conscience will begin to bother you and depression results. Why does your conscience have this effect upon you? Scripture teaches that the mechanism of the conscience is to either "approve" or "accuse" you (Romans 2:15) (John 13:17) (James 1:25). If your conscience approves your actions and attitudes, you will feel great. If your conscience accuses you, depression results.

D. Here are some Biblical examples.

1. In Gen. 4:1-9 when Cain's offering was not accepted by the Lord he became angry at God and his brother Abel. Cain rejected God's counsel to him which was, "if you do the right thing you will be accepted." The Hebrew word for accepted means; to be elated or cheerful. Therefore, he is told that if he would simply take the right action, he would feel cheerful. However, he rejected God’s encouragement, disobeyed His counsel, and his countenence fell. He became depressed because of his unbelief and disobedience.

2. Read 2 Samuel 11 & 12 and Psalms 32:3-5. In these passages it is revealed that David committed adultery and murder, and then refused to confess his sin for about a year. He described what he felt during that rebellious time in Psalms 32. He groaned "all the day long" inside his his spirit (vs. 3). He experienced a spiritual drought in his heart until he took the biblical action necessary to relieve his guilt. His conscience was obviously bothering him and depression resulted. However, he confessed his sin and joy and rejoicing returned (vs. 10-11). Why? Because he obeyed his conscience and did what was right before God.

3. Notice the common denominator in of these two examples. In both cases there were wrong actions taken and each failed to obey the conviction of conscience based on their knowledge of God’s Word. Depression was the result.

III. What Should You Do About Your Depression?

A. First, believe that there is a way out! This is the promise of God! "No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it" (1 Corinthians 10:13). Believe today that God will provide for you a way of escape and the strength to bear this adversity. Jesus said, "The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, because He has anointed Me to preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed" (Luke 4:18). If you will trust God He will heal your broken heart and set you free from the depression you are experiencing. In addition, God declares that He will "console those who mourn in Zion, to give them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness"

(Isaiah 61:3). Believe God’s Word and ask Him to fill you with His Holy Spirit and to remove the spirit of heaviness from your heart.

B. Obey God. Take whatever biblical action is necessary for your conscience to approve you, and the depression will lift. Notice God's encouragement, "Oh, that you had heeded my commandments! Then your peace would have been like a river, and your righteousness like the waves of the sea" (Isaiah 48:18). Simply do what God commands and you will have peace. Paul also said, "I myself always strive to have a conscience without offense toward God and men" (Acts 24:16). This is the choice of obedience.

Here are some examples of actions you may want to take.

1. If you are angry with God, take this action. Confess your sin and ask God to give you understanding concerning His purposes.

2. If you are holding a grudge and you are resentful toward another, take the action commanded in Matthew 18:15-17; Mark 11:25-26; James 5:16. Seek out the person to reconcile, confess your faults first, ask for this person's forgiveness, pray together, and ask for God's forgiveness. These are all godly actions that will relieve depression.

3. If you are dwelling in your thought life on, your failures, self-condemnation, or the terrible circumstances in your life; take these actions: First, spend time in the Word of God meditating on His promises. Choose to obey Philippians 4:8, "Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy - meditate on these things." Next, define each problem on paper to determine the causes and possible actions that might be taken to change them.

C. Take these actions no matter how you feel. Remember if you take the biblical action required, your feelings will change. If you wait until you feel like praying or feel like reading the Bible, you will never do it. However, when you do pray, read your Bible, and seek the Lord, you will be encouraged and feel better.

D. The bottom line is always prayer. This is where you will come in contact with the God of all comfort and the God of all hope. (Romans 15:13).

1. Study these passages for further insight as to how prayer helped David when he was depressed. (Psalms 143, 55, 61, 77, 102 and 142)

*Jus hack care this post if u think there's alot of words.. that was jus for my self reference onli n well may help in future..


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~*DepREsSinG*~

So depressing so miserable.. Life have so many set back.. And e worse 1 that can eva happen is on some 1 u love deeply..I am so in shock when i heard bout that news this mornin, for i tot the worst have gone but truly i am wrong.. I jus feel very very very sad knowing that it once again bout money issue.. I shall not comment on who's fault it is as i totally got no ideal.. Wat happen this time? it bout close to 10 000 bucks we going to deal with this time.. n where e hell is e money goin to fall fr?
I dun noe.. i jus dun like it.. Ok face e fact i am scare ok? I dun noe how many pple really know how am i feelin.. but trust me.. i'll do any thing jus for my family but as for now.. givin up my sch is a "no No" thing to me.. but i jus wanan do something to prove that i can help before it's all too late.. i Dun wanna see any1 of them falling down hance i Cant even do a single thing.. "*God grant me the will to live on for e 1 who love me... "
Now that i am saying this , i am crying deep down in my heart but emm life still has to go on, so i am gonna keep smilin :), I jus feel like huggin now..
It's so hard to keep my tears for e 1 i love for i know that they r suffering n yet i am helpless.. Damn..
Sacrified has to be make somewhere in e process.. In order to build a better  tml.. haiZ..
I belive that's more set back to come as well.. so i am not gonna let it jus hit me down yea.. hehe..
Jus a tot.. how much will u guys go to e extent to help out in ur family?
I really wanna help out badly , any suggestion? Need help...

*That corner of my heart is aching.. tears like heavy rain pour is floodin me.. I dun noe how strong i am.. I jus need a hug from u

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Hmm.. Should have spend more time with my family... Some how had a feelin that i neglated them.. I miss havin a good chat with daddy n e fact is.. i haven see him for 2 days..Wat a daughter i am.. Haven had a good look n chat with my sisters as well.. jia liat.. I miss my family..  


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Thursday, July 12, 2007
~*12 Julyo7*~

Hai this few days wasnt really goin on good for me... Arrg.. Here i am to find e best place to grumble .. Haiz.. jus yesterday some bastard fr my sch mistaken mi as aunty.. Idiot.. Do i realli look like aunty ? Wan to cry sia... U thhink pple wan to be like aunty meh.. jus sometime it so hard to find clothes for me which look young n active.. well I try... N this afternoon.. right b4 sch start, that photocopied shop aunty dun wanna help mi print jus potion of e notes.. Got money give u earn u dun wan...jus because it's troublesome then  dun wan to help mi print.. wat service is this... Sian.. no point sayin out here i suppose.. all i have to is go out side n print.. dots dots dots.. E fact is I'm in a lousy school with not workin lift n elscaltor, rule aunty and unworking air-con..

Rene rene suggested that i shld go get some kids cloth to wear.. i then dun wan... i guess this way will be call actin cute instead... Well tokin bout being called aunty.. some adult.. even much more elderly then me...called their child to call mi aunty.. Cant use eyes to see that i am alot more much younger then u , cock eye! Fancy callin mi aunty.. ok fine.. if i am aunty then wat's u? Ah soh.. ah ma? Arrg.. I jus dun like pple callin mi aunty when i am not.. it hurts so much..

Sch has being pretty sucky.. I dun noe y.. but it jus seem like i got a goal to achive n that goin to poly.. Well @ least wat that's i aimin for now.. if not.. i think i shall decide it when time is nearer.. takin up visual basic n computer math this sem.. oh.. i love visual @ least as compare to java it much user friendly.. :)
there's this weird guy in my class.. think him n rene rene n kelvin can become hao peng you la.. they 3 every time during e life skill lesson like to entertain BT n Me.. so funny.. i guess this is the funnies part that i realli enjoy..

hmm seem like alot of pple i know isnt feelin really well.. like me.. i dun noe y but i havin this headach on n off.. dearie fall sick n alvin once again admitted to hospital.. Talkin bout him.. feel like slappin him for being so emo.. dum dum..
prepared cyrcentement tea for deaie n my family.. but then didnt turn out so good as it was my first attempt.. Well i normally prefer to but those realli make de @ shop but then i decided to make a pot for every 1 hopin that they stay strong n healty but emm e result wasnt really good as it was too thick n it taste bitter.. eekk yuck.. good think my family n i Got use to it.. like mummy say.. bitter then good .. every thing sweet or salty can really harm the body.. did any 1 hear of pple dying becos they took in too bitter food? no right.. i suppose this is y.. sour also good la.. but i jus hate it.. make my gum so pain..


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Monday, July 09, 2007
~*LiFe is CompliCator*~

Hello hello.. today let be include some of the pic i taken for the past week.. some thing to remeber bout whateva that happen in e days that i did not blog.. Sch network is so slow... even sufing is makin mi sleepy.. so turn off..Anyway was pretty busy for the past 2 week catchin up with my frenes, family n of cos... dearie..

Currently today is my first day of sch for the new semester.. 9.30 to 6.. in btw there's many breaks.. well i guess this is a good time where we girls get along to catch up with 1 another.. back to the same old rountin .. rene have being complainin bout sleepy n wanna go home .. well life isnt that bad la.. but well i suppose we all still pretty the old days with the previous class .. cos e class now is like so anti social... "rene.. Life is not Bored!!!"
heard e teacher say there be a VB competition coming up n i am so eager to know more bout it.. talkin bout VB.. it's not tht hard to learn as well... good luck to all those who's learnin it now...*Smile

Have being workin for the past 2 days.. due to lack of water.. my lips is crack.. painful wor... have a nice weekend workin especially workin with lina.. i miss her sia.. so long didnt see her le..have a good chat with her before it started to rain heavily.. n i forget to bring  ez link card.. so i called daddy to come drive mi home.. it was really so nice to have such  caring dad.. i love u daddy... oh.. and jenny..love to to bits.. thanks for givin mi $$ for lunch eh.. Till now i haven even withdraw $$ n dame sch ATM machine.. cannot dispese $$ so i think onli till tml then i can get my book..

 

 


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